nib has published the findings from its State of the Nation Parenting Survey. The survey looked into the concerns of parents in 2020. Behavioural issues was identified as the top health related concern. This concern was raised by 34% of all participants. While parents with young children reported that their biggest concern was children experiencing extensive episodes of irritability, anger and short-temperedness. Nathan Wallis, nib parenting expert, commented saying that the shift during lockdown added to an already emotional stage for toddlers. When discussing lockdown experiences, participants noted that prolonged negative behaviour were common occurrences.
“Leading health insurer, nib New Zealand, has released the findings from its second annual nib State of the Nation Parenting Survey, shedding light on the concerns that have been top of mind for Kiwi parents during a year unlike any other.
Behavioural issues are the number one health concern Kiwi parents have for their children, cited by more than a third (34%) of respondents, up 13% from 2019. Last year’s biggest health-related concern, sleep, still features prominently, as do stress levels and diet and exercise.
Taking a closer look at families’ lockdown experience, the number of respondents reporting sustained episodes of negative behaviour from their children (lasting two weeks or longer) grew significantly during the nationwide lockdown period. Concerningly, this increase has been largely sustained since lockdown ended.
Parents of younger children reported prolonged episodes of irritability, anger and short-temperedness as their biggest concern, while among parents of high schoolers, the sharpest increase came in levels of concern around changes to children’s motivation.
nib parenting expert, Nathan Wallis says, “Lockdown saw most families dealing with added stress as they adapted to new and novel experiences. Toddlers may in many ways have felt this most acutely as they are already in a very emotional stage of development - it’s called “Terrible Twos” for a reason. Toddlers are also just beginning to learn how to manage their emotions, so it’s mum and dad who have to do most of it for them. This was understandably compounded by lockdown, so many parents of toddlers had it quite hard.””
The study also found that parents struggled. Participants reported that their motivation, energy levels, and performance at work decreased during lockdown while feeling overwhelmed increased. Parents reported that their biggest source of stress was financial uncertainty which impacted 39% of participants. The study found that only 8% of participants didn’t feel any stress. When discussing the future, 70% of participants reported that they felt positive and 67% believed that lockdown helped to solidify their family unit.
“The findings also clearly demonstrate the toll 2020 has taken on parents themselves. Lockdown saw sharp increases in the number of respondents suffering from decreased motivation, decreased energy levels, a sense of feeling overwhelmed, and declining performance at work. Any subsequent reduction since lockdown ended has been limited to just one or two percentage points.
The biggest source of stress reported by parents this year was financial uncertainty, impacting 39% of respondents – followed closely by the impact of COVID-19 on the world, general job-related stress and the economy. Fewer than one in 10 respondents (8%) reported not feeling any particular level of stress over this period.
For the 42% of respondents who saw their financial situation worsen due to COVID-19, the impact of this was reflected in general stress levels, and also felt in terms of quality of sleep and relationships.
Despite an undeniably tough year, it’s not all bad news. When asked about the outlook for their family, 70% of respondents reported feeling positive about the future and 67% believe lockdown strengthened their family unit, with many reporting a greater sense of happiness, and better communication as a result.”
Here is a list of the key findings:
Parents’ biggest health-related concerns for their children:
· Behavioural issues – 34% (up 13% from last year)
· Diet and exercise – 33%
· Sleep (lack of, too much, pattern changes) – 31%
· Stress levels – 31%
Biggest behavioural concerns, with episodes lasting two weeks or longer (as experienced pre-, during and post-lockdown):
· Pre-school children – prolonged episodes of irritability, anger and short-temperedness.
§ 12% pre-lockdown, 28% during lockdown, 25% post-lockdown
· Primary and intermediate children – prolonged episodes of irritability, anger and short-temperedness.
§ 17% pre-lockdown, 32% during and 28% post-lockdown
· High school children – prolonged episodes of decreased motivation.
§ 12% pre-lockdown, 37% during lockdown, 23% post-lockdown
Biggest personal impacts of lockdown – experienced by parents themselves:
· Decreased motivation – 13% pre lockdown, 29% during lockdown, 28% post-lockdown
· Decreased energy – 14% pre-lockdown, 29% during lockdown, 30% post-lockdown
· Feeling overwhelmed – 19% pre-lockdown, 33% during lockdown, 31% post-lockdown
· Declining performance at work – 5% pre-lockdown, 14% during lockdown, 13% post-lockdown
Parents’ biggest sources of personal stress:
· Financial uncertainty - 39% of respondents
· The impact of COVID-19 on the world - 36%
· General job-related stress - 34%
· The economy - 34%
Impact of lockdown on family unit:
· Greatly strengthened family unit – 24%
· Somewhat strengthened family unit – 43%
· Made no difference to family dynamics / relations – 28%
· Somewhat weakened family unit – 4%
· Greatly weakened family unit – 1%
Parents’ outlook for the future of their families:
· Very positive – 22%
· Positive – 48%
· Neutral – 18%
· Concerned – 2%
· Extremely concerned – 2%
· Don’t know / unsure – 8%
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