They just want both their names on the forms in a way that makes sense

This is a fascinating article about a couple who just want to be able to put both their names on the incredible cluster of forms that swirl around when you have a baby. It really underlines, in some ways, how little progress has been made. But at least when challenged by journalists several of the relevant authorities have said that they will be making changes. Link: https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-devon-58071558 

When we can't, or won't make our forms and processes describe people as they wish to be described, or see people as they see themselves, then we have to ask - are we deliberately excluding them? So a quick shout out to all those businesses that have flexible forms and questions phrased so that they include people.